Wednesday 21 November 2007

Life goes on

I have been stuck for a while, The impact of Mark now resting took it's toll on my motivation to blog . Life goes on, things continue and although I have been stuck with not knowing what to write or how to write how I feel, I am now able to move on.

The last 6 weeks have been busy as usual.
My parents came back to Canberra and have returned to Queensland today.
We have shared meals and laughs , watched Demelza at Soccer practice, witnessed the Girls gaining their Red belts and achieved their weapons licence in karate and took turns on the Flying Fox at kambah adventure playground ,Ok I didn't go on the flying fox , but Dad did . The girls were pretty impressed with how strong grandad is.His ability to keep his legs tucked up close to his chest really made an impression on Demelza who hasn't yet managed to travel the entire way from one plartform to the other like Grandad can.


Ishta and I have made a luau costume for her workplace's christmas party. we celebrated halloween and the melbourne cup.

Ayla went to an 18 birthday party, the Stanthorpe race day, the Deb ball and cooked for the Small wine Makers Dinner with John Rogers.
She lost her friend, got a tatoo in his honor , A small UFO inside a pyramid (as they would climb the Ballandean Pyramid and look for UFO's in the clear country skies) on her ankle,the one she broke one evening at Dachsy's house and he and Tim duck taped her to a chair so she would'nt hurt herself, then they all climbed the pyramid.
The funeral was huge and Ayla and Tim and all the kids who knew mark returned to say goodbye.They made a cross for the roadside , climbed the pyramid as a group and sent off their friend with love and laughter remembering the joy he brought to their lives.
Ayla gave her notice at IGA . Her job as a supervisor is made difficult by the nasty older ladies .
They mistreat the younger staff members and are rude and vicious. Being a small town with no Industry mainly farming and 20 retail outlets and part time work offered in the wineries the choices are limited for the young people who stay.
Ayla has plenty of support in Stanthorpe and has been offered a job in a new cafe in ballandean.

Seb went to Collinsville to a mine and worked in 40 degree heat .
He drove up from Brisbane ,stopping at Mackay Which he fell in love with and then on to Collinsville. On weekends Seb went to Airlie and partied with all the other beautiful people and Brooksey who works on Hamilton Island.
Brooksey has an enviable job if you are 21 and single and love to party.
He is responsible for Tanning, snorkling and scuba diving and water sports and beach games. The money is average but everyday he is at the beach, driving speed boats water skiiing, sand tobagganing and looking at reef fish, he makes the tourists remember their holiday on Hamilton. When he goes to town he likes to dance and stay with the Back packers and Seb and Brooksey went to town and had a blast.
Sebs girl flew up from Brisbane to be with him one weekend, and they stayed at Airlie Beach in the Pinnacle resort.

One of the local women celebrated her birthday on Saturday and Sebastian was the stripper -gram he thoroughly enjoyed himself, so did the party goers. He was a bit coy the next day however when he purchased the paper and and bread at the local store and the woman who served him was the party girl.

His job at Collinsville has finished and he returns to Brisbane Today.

We went to Tuross Head and I fell in love with It . absolutely glorious little cove surf beach , spit and lake all in close proximity and rural living and beach houses , so beautiful reminded me of NZ.
loved the art shop at mogo and the country markets, a beautiful part of the country.

So much more has happend but this is just a quick down load to get my head around blogging again and keeping my 2007 diary.

4 comments:

Anonymous said...

Iam so glad you have managed to move on. So much has been going on in your life and it's good to get it down in the blog.

Wanda
www.only-cookware.com

Anonymous said...

Ayla her lost was terrible but knowing the older (stated) nasty ladies.Please make sure your facts are right before stated anything else job performance is a major factor in any business.

The Proletariat said...

Thank you anonymous,
Ayla resigned her position as she had trouble understanding inequality in the work environment. She isn't one to sit by and allow others to be illl treated, so she decided to leave rather than be the next victim of workplace abuse, can u blame her? now that you have a different perspective , you have power.
I experienced some degree of bad behaviour from collegues at a workplace on the Granite Belt, It had nothing to do with performance mine or Aylas and Aylas decision to leave also has nothing to do with poor performance and certainly not her own or that of the her co workers who were mis treated by the nasty older ladies, it was more of a power trip being the boss and demanding ridiculous things that don't improve morale or productivity.
Thanks for encouraging me to flesh out the story for you.

The Proletariat said...

Anonymous,

I shouldn't have resorted to name calling.

You mentioned and acknowledge Aylas loss? and job performance?, a compassionate mature collegue may have also recognised the emotional and physical toll such a sudden wrench has on a person.

Healing takes time and compassion is what identifies and separates leaders from the unskilled in management and people skills.

Through a caring management style, respect is developed and subordinates then strive to succeed... for themselves and their boss.
Just could'nt let it go....